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I Live Life w/ No Regrets ... Everything I do has a Purpose and is a result of My Decision to do so. This YOLO mentality makes life a little more enjoyable. Tune in and stay Updated, I think you'll enjoy the Movie-Like Blog Experience. O Yea ... YOLO = You Only Live Once

My Goal in LIFE ... (Trey Songz: My Moment)


Be the BEST Friend, Person, and Son That I Can Be!

This Quote Touched Me

It's From

Trey Songz Mother (April Tucker)

‎"Until My Son was an Adult there was Never a Man that I Could Count On ... The First Man I've Ever been able to Depend on Is the One I Raised"




This is a Harsh Reality. I Hope that No Female Friend of Mine can say the Same Thing Whether They have a Father Figure in there Lives or Not ... I Take Pride in being a GREAT FRIEND and Truly Hope that I am Living Out the Goals that I have set forth for Myself.

... Thanks for Tuning In ...

BZJ is 21


!HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRUH!

BZJ is 21

YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEAN!!!!!

Below You'll see a Collection of his 21 Flyest Photos

I'll Add an Excerpt After Each Photo for Shits and Giggles!

SOLO Shots

(1) Fierce

(2) Smooth

(3) Swag


(4) Young Boy Pic


(5) Money and Shoes


(6) Poolin' It


(7) Envious


(8) Geek Squad Fresh


(9) Pretty Boy Swag lol ... iLiked this STYLE then BZ got all Experimental and Shi!


(10) BZ Kept the Flyest Braids ...

The Only Person in the Crew who iThink Shoulda Kept the Braids

Shout Outs to Aaron


(11) Menace to Society Shot 1


(12) Menace to Society Shot 2

(13) The NEW BZ

GROUP Shots


(14) First Trip to Cornell was a CLASSIC!!!!! BZ Brought the Energy as ALWAYS!!!!!


(15) Best Friends Forever No Matter How Much Chris Calls BZ a "DickHead" lol They will Always Ride or Die!!!


(16) Classic Shot ... iLove the Chemistry


(17) BZ and the Squad ...


(18) Posted Up "Stay Cool"




(20) CHS Classic BZ and Nuvo


(21) The Walk towards Bigger and Better Things in Age Descending Order ...

These are Just Images of the Birthday Boy!!! Figured It was ONLY Fitting!!!

This is just a GLIMPSE at my Man's LIFE over the YEARS ... BZ is the REALEST Boy iKnow Click This Link if You Want more of My Opinion about MY Awesome A$$ Friend ...

Rashad's Thoughts on BZJ

My Man Made it 21 Despite all the Craziness We've Encountered Over the Years!

CONGRATULATIONS ...

Let's Do Something CRAZY this WEEKEND!

After 21 Years I Know

BZ's Passion ... Money, Clothes, and Fashion


Thanks for Tuning IN!!! ShadShaddy2 is Out ...


BRANDON BING's Pool Party!


|BRANDON BING POOL PARTY|


Inside & Around Pool


|JULY 31st| 8pm-12am|


|FOX CHASE SWIM CLUB|


|1098 SOLLY AVE. PHILA, PA| DJ CATERING|$10|

Bing

Shad

Nuvo

Ibro

Billie

Brittie Britt

C-Moore

Keith

!!!!4 DAYS!!!!

!Come Out and Enjoy!

My NYC Adventure ...


Before iStart I wanna Give you All Some Advice abt Traveling to NYC w/ a Large Group of Friends

1) Go Unanimously Solo Dolo, or Go With A Girl Otherwise There Will be Conflicting Interest

2) Make Sure Everyone Has Money b/c as You Know NYC Aint Cheap

3) Be Patient NYC is Confusing for Tourists So Your Likely to Travel Inefficiently

4) Have Cool Ass Friends To Help You Out if you Need Random Ish to Get Into

5) NEVER BE the ONLY SOBER ONE if You're Traveling in a BIG GROUP


Now that WE HAVE THAT OUT OF THE WAY ... Where should iBegin?!

Guest List:
Rashad
Ibro
Dilly
Bing
Britt
Chris
Val
Dorian
Julian
BZ

Itenerary:

Rashad, Ibro, and Dilly Leave 6:30am

Chris, Val, Dorian, Britt Leave 12:30pm

BZ, Julian Leave (Whenever They're Ready)

Bing Leave (Eventually) lol

So as you can see the Trip was Fairly Unorganized ... AnyWho Let's get to the Adventure!!!

First Things First ... I boarded a Bus at 6am ... I Didn't get Much Sleep the Night before but Whatever, I Figured I would sleep Eventually and I planned on having Fun this weekend so I didn't allow my lack of sleep to Phase Me.

Who Knew There was Football in NYC lol My Brother is a Coach and They had a Scrimmage so Me and My Little Bro had to go Support so I went to my first Game in NYC
Because NYC Football is so Rare I was Scheduled to go to a tattoo appointment with my friend but unfortunately I was so far from where she was that I missed it and she was done before I even left the field. Luckily she didn't hold it against me and we managed to have a good time despite my promise to be with her when she got her tat.

This was a sign to me that Rashad and Tats aren't meant to be.

Since I was so Late we decided to wait for Everybody Else that was coming up before we headed out again. By this time it was about 5pm so people were getting hungry. I'm not a fan of the Subway but I was in NYC so it was really all I Had ... Plus they brought some adventures our way later in the weekend.

This was Times Square MAIN ATTRACTION O Yea and the Tin Guy who Had an Attitude if you took Pics of Him without Paying for it lol ... I Guess he Figured he Owned the Space he Occupied so he Charged People for It!

So we wandered around Times Square for a little before finally deciding to go to DALLAS BBQ. In BBQ's I Finally became HAPPY! :-)


Texas Size Mango Strawberry Pina Colada !!!! I was Hype Look as at ALL that FLAVOR!!! You Would Be Too ...

After BBQ's we were Harlem Bound O Yea I Wish We would have took a Pic of the Big Diesel Boys Working Out on the Streets. NFL Defensive End Type Freaks Just Doing Pull ups on Street Lights and Push Ups on MailBoxes.

As most of You Know Julian can't Go out without taking a Shower ... So we had to make a Pit stop so he could Freshen Up lol ... This gave him and BZ time to get a little Something in there System. So By the Time we got to the Party Julian was Bent and BZ was GONE ... He Provided All of the Entertainment for the Night! He was LOUD, Outgoing, Enthusiastic Everything that Defines Brandon but imagine his Natural Characteristics on Steroids ...

In Short Harlem brought Drama, Trouble (:-), Confusion, Division but at the END of the Day it served as a Great Page of the Film Production of the STAY COOL Movie that Will be Released when We All Live Happily Ever After lol


We Left Harlem then Headed back to Brooklyn ... The Night was Pretty Hectic but at the END of the Day Everyone's Feelin'gs Were Mutual We Were Tired as Shi ... This was the The Party Group ... We got back to Brooklyn "After Hours" and the when We got to Franklin Ave and the Shuttle wasn't working so we had to walk and got in around 4 it was a LONG CRAZY Night to say the Least. BZ Provided Most of the Entertainment and Then when we Got HOMe he made it his Mission to Wake-Up the Entire House ... He had Good Reason, but Everything was OK!!!

It was Time for BED and We had Random Ish to Tend To the Next Day ...

Our First Stop was Flight Club NYC ... It was SNEAKER Heaven but Prices were Dumb High like they were the Last Sneaks on Earth. This was Stop Number 1 then WE Hit Up SoHo for a little bit ... Shortly After we hit the MIH BBQ "HeatWave 10.0"

We got to Heat Wave around 5pm ... Julian had stayed behind and was at the BBQ Most of the Day. He scoped Out All of the Beautiful Ladies and had been Tweeting About it All Day ... Shortly After We Arrived his Tweets were Confirmed ... The MIH BBQ has Always Had the Most Beautiful Collection of Women that iHave Ever Seen. Above is just a Glimpse of the Busy Atmosphere.

This Photo gives you a better idea about How Many People were There ... The ratio was in our Favor and if you haven't made it out to a MIH BBQ I Suggest you and a nice group of Friends make the Trip it is worth the experience.

After this we went back to the Crib and Chilled since Our Bus didn't Head out until 11:45pm ... Brooklyn was Quality and We Even Left for our Bus Early!

Our BUS RAN Maaaaaaad Late but We Finally Made it Home by 2:30am


Here's a Shot of Us Chilling in Philadelphia 30th Street Station Waiting for Our RIDE!

The Trip was Hectic but FLY

Stay Cool is Making a More Mature One Next Summer You're All Invited!!!

... Just in Case You Forgot ...

Advice about Trips to NYC :-)

1) Go Unanimously Solo Dolo, or Go With A Girl Otherwise There Will be Conflicting Interest

2) Make Sure Everyone Has Money b/c as You Know NYC Aint Cheap

3) Be Patient NYC is Confusing for Tourists So Your Likely to Travel Inefficiently

4) Have Cool Ass Friends To Help You Out if you Need Random Ish to Get Into

5) NEVER BE the ONLY SOBER ONE if You're Traveling in a BIG GROUP

Thanks for Tuning IN!!!!!

Tired of the SAME $HIT? ...

THE ONLY Way to GROW is to Leave Your Comfort Zone!



My Inspiration was A Message from Lil' Wayne:
(The Chorus if This Song)


Now Aint you Tired of Seein the SAME $hit EVERYDAY

I Mean the SAME $hit Ashley n Mary-Kate

Sometimes I Wish dat I was Blind like Mr. Ray

How Come you Talkin out Yo A$$ but Aint got $hit to Say

I $pend my Money like my Time I Aint Got it to Waste

Man I'm so Fast Feel like I'm Racin in a Different Race

Too Much Champagne now Watch Me Spit It in Dem _ _ _ _ _ _ Face

Tomorrow Mornin I Could Tell You How Dem _ _ _ _ _ _ Taste

True Friends

The Simplest Way to Judge the Quality of your Friendships!

I LOVE My Friends!!!

Today I wanna Tell to YOU one way to Figure Out Whether or NOT You're Good Friends!

This is How You Test You're Friendships ...


Instead of the Typical Night of Mayhem Filled with Drinking, Movies, Clubbing, Dinner, Roller Blading, etc.

!!!DO THIS!!!

Go to a Basement or Big Room and Remove All Electronic Devices and External Distractions.
Sit with the Lights On or Off and See whether or Not you Enjoy the company of one another and whether or not You can Hold a Conversation. This is Easier Said than Done.

If you can do this and LOSE Track of Time then what you have is special if you find this exercise stressful or most of you are on your Phone then Something isn't right. That isn't to say that this is the ultimate test of True Friendship but I truly believe that Communication and Comfortability define True Friendships.

If WE CAN'T CHILL we can't BE ...

The People You Lose Track of Time With are REAL FRIENDS ... Those Other People are COOL TOO Though! :-)

Networking to Increase My Friends Daily I Believe Quantity Brings Forth Quality so I Invest!

... Thanks for Tuning In ...

Had some Quality CHILL Nights this Summer it Reminded Me of How Great My Friends Are!

Stay Cool

Till Next Time Shad Shaddy 2 is Out!





Text Message Mania: Part II

Part II of the Lock Text Message Series
Rashad From Someone Else's Perspective

PAIN:

You don't have to be a Dick about Everything I say Rashad ... I don't Understand what I Ever Did to You?

Whatever I Can't Believe I was Stupid Enough to Even Go Through any of That. Yup see you around I guess

2nite Really Can't Happen Again. Its not Fair 2me U or the Girl who it seems like u really like.. soo no more unless u figure out what u really want 4sure.

PLEASURE:

O Yea and Nice Body Homey, I Forgot to Tell U Haha

My Nieces was like _______ You need to Hop on Dat lol

I can't Get u Off my Mind enough to Pay Him any Attention ... I Really Like U Too ... (Sound like Some Boyfriend # 2 Ish lol)

Lmao Haha Babyboi I Fuckin Luv U! Lol ur Hilarious

Yo dude, got a late night txt Confession lol ... I'm Kinda Obsessed ... It's Official lol

RASHAD IS THE BESTEST GUY IN THE WORLD, HE'S A FREAKIN ORACLE WHO GIVES THE GREATEST GIFTS!!!! I've got Mad Love and Respect for Him ......

Yo...Ima Miss you Like Crazy when we go Off to College...lol

Aww Rashad! Thank You ...But I'm not usually this way, and I guess that's why I'm confused...I don't usually go out of my way to ma a guy smile...but then I've never had a guy who's willing to go out of his way to do the same...and accepted me for me, so quickly...if someone loves me for who I am, I Love Them 2wice ...

Baby ... Haha Baaaabyyy... I FREAKING LOVE YOU!!! OMG Why are you so Sweet and Nice and Considerate?

PLAY:

I start taking shallow breaths (or shorter breaths) and tense up ... (Freak Text lol)

Lol raping ur wallet buddy!! But its ok, u don't have to pay...I'll just take ur body as equal payment....

My Pillows Have Sharpie on Them ... (Oopsies ... lol)


To See My Older Post Click Below

Locked Text Messages Part I


This Sunday (7/18) MIH 2010 HeatWave 10.0 BBQ

Testimonials:


"If you weren't there, you missed the cookout of the year! Good food, great music, and lots of beautiful people! Take Friday off to get ready and Monday off to recuperate." – Anonymous


"The MIH BBQ is an event that I have looked forward to for the past 10 years. Good food, good people, and lots of fun! The summer is not complete without MIH Heatwave." – Anonymous


"Congrats to MIH for putting together a fabolous event; I've never seen so many beautiful people in one place. Just fabolous all around." - Anonymous

Say This Aloud!


FUCK


... Sometimes We Gotta Fuck Life ...

Thanks for Tuning in
(From @BREASTiFULBRiTT Blog)

HeatWave 2010


Who: MIHicon's

What: The Best BBQ in NY this Summer

When: Sunday, July 18th, 2010

Where: Brooklyn, NY *Prospect Park*

Why: You Only Live Once ... lol




I'm Finally Convinced


This is the GREATEST Free Agency Class EVER!

... Decisions Decisions ...

Guy Facts ...

When a guy Calls You, He wants to Be With You

When a guy is Quiet, He's Ignoring or Listening to You ...

When a guy is Not Arguing, He realizes He's Wrong

When a guy Says, "I'm fine, " After a few minutes, He Means It

When a guy Stares at You, He wishes you would Care about Him and Wonders If You Do

When You're laying Your Head on a guy's Chest, He has the World

When a guy Calls You Everyday, He's in Love

When a guy tells you He Loves You First, He means It

When a guy says He Can't Live Without You, He's with You till Your Done

I only made a Few Adjustments but I think they're pretty legit now.

Heat Wave 10.0


The BIGGEST and BEST BBQ in NY is BACK ... HEATWAVE 10.0


I don't know if you notice all the people in the BACKGROUND but this BBQ is Huge ... The social scene is vibrant, there's a lot of Diversity, great place to Network but more importantly just a great day have a good time and relax with friends and enjoy some Free Food in one of the Best Cities in this Planet.

For more Info check out there Website


In the Picture above you'll notice Jonevan, Keenan, and Shane. They are Georgetown/Columbia Grads that do A Lot for the NYC Community. They're Great Friends of my Brother Aquil who used to be a member of MIH until a few years ago. I'm pretty good friends with them and I know for a fact this years HEATWAVE will be an awesome event. They are a Promotional Group that does great work. Their events Always Please as you can tell due to the loyalty of clientele, and the masses that they successfully attract to all of their events.

I suggest those of you that can make it out come to Prospect Park in Brooklyn NY on July 18th

StayCool is making the RoadTrip with a Few Random Guest lol but for more info Hit me Up, you don't Wanna Miss This!

It will be a GREAT Event!

Hopefully I can see my NYC Cornell Fam ...

Any Questions ... Let Me Know!


The Team One More Time ...

Thanks for Tuning In ... Shad Shaddy 2 is OUT